What to Expect

Erotic Couples ONLY events are becoming a mainstream activity and has become something of a social-sexual phenomenon in recent years. People from all walks of life are attracted to the “LifeStyle”, with the highest influx being 30-40 something, married, middle to upper class, professionals who are hitting the club scene for the first time. In a society that promotes sexuality, secure couples have been able to develop a sense of sexual maturity which has led to a point where exploration has become a popular trend.

Most people have the wrong idea of what LifeStyle club is. Many think that it’s just one big orgy and you check your clothes at the door and then dive right in, doing anything you want with whomever you like.

At The RolePlay Erotic Couples Lounge this is COMPLETELY not the case!
More than anything else, RolePlay is a social club where you’ll meet some of the nicest people. In some cases, you’ll form bonds that will last a lifetime.

Please read over our General Swingers Club Information page to help answer some of your questions about our lounge.

If you do not see the answer you are looking for, please visit our Frequent Asked Questions page for common questions asked by people just like you.

Here is How It Work's

The best way to approach the evening is with only one single expectation, and that is to have a fun time together with your partner.  For your first visit to RolePlay, plan on having a few drinks and enjoying the sexually charged dance floor. This way you’ll both be completely comfortable with no expectations.

Then one (or a few) of the following things will definitely happen . . .

A….. At the end of the night of drinking and dancing in this sexually charged environment, you will both will go home and have mind-blowing sex!  recharging your sex life and supercharging your relationship.


B……  While on the dance floor, the attractive couple dancing beside you is dirty dancing and her body keeps rubbing against yours on the dance floor. You respond by touching and caressing them back. Then they   disappear into the crowd and you enjoy the excitement of this sexual anonymous encounter.


C…..  You both want to see more, so you venture up to the second floor and find a room that is in the midst of a very sexy orgy. You don’t go in , but instead you observe from the doorway, close enough to easily view all the exciting activities, yet far enough away to accommodate your comfort zone. You feel like you’re part of the activities, though not needing to participate in them. It’s like you’re sitting in an adult theater watching the most erotic orgy you’ve ever seen, except this time it isn’t a movie… The action is real and live!


D….. You are both so turned on by the evening that you retreat upstairs and find a comfy lounge chair in one of the play rooms,  you enjoy great sex together and enjoy being an exhibitionist. All while another couple or threesome, foursome or more-some are doing the same on the other side of the room.  And their sexy sounds only add to  your excitement.


E….. You see the couple that was dancing beside you on the dance floor and they are playing in one of the rooms. There is room next to them so you spread your sheet out  beside them and lay down. You begin kissing and playing with your mate, then after a little while the pretty girl of the couple beside you gently touches your arm to extend an invitation to touch them back. You respond to her touch not really knowing yet how much touching or caressing will take place, but knowing full well that either couple can say no at any time and set any limits they desire.Maybe the ladies only touch each other while the men each pleasure their own wives. Maybe the men are massaging both the ladies’ entire bodies or maybe the ladies are stroking the other man while having sex with her husband. Who knows what might happen this special magical night, it’s all up to you and those involved with you. Maybe she might enjoy giving you oral while her husband services her from behind, you’ll be sure to see plenty of that going on here. And maybe you’ll engage in full partner sharing with a complete exchange of partners..

This is your night, you set your own limits.

Tips For Visiting RolePlay

You and your partner should have a clear communication about… what is OK and what is NOT OK.

What am I comfortable with? And What are you comfortable with?

Define signals with your partner. How do we signal that we are uncomfortable in a situation?

After each experience talk about everything that happened, were you excited? Challenged? Happy? Was it a pleasurable experience?

Were there any “awkward” moments?.

Also, be aware that your play partners have their own rules, and if you run into one that seems odd to you – remember it makes sense to them.

Do not try to convince them that they should change their rule to suit you.